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Recently our daughter commented on how she couldn’t look at a particular photo of herself as a toddler because it brought back feelings of terror. Wendy and I were stunned to hear this. Even though we have learned much in … Continue reading

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I don’t believe in fate

I don’t believe in fate, not really, but in some sense I began to think how much our baby was meant to be our baby. After a short period of time, you begin to imagine your baby couldn’t be any … Continue reading

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Hello and Welcome

Leah was adopted from the Philippines 23 years ago. It’s been 23 years of love and joy matched by anger, depression and fear. This is her story, but it’s her parents’ story too. It’s also her brother’s story and his … Continue reading

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